The secret....

....to happy living is that THERE IS NO SECRET. No self help book, no video, no guru can help u find peace - psycho therapy yes!! but trying to think positive, or act positive by denying a problem is not going to help anyone! Life is not meant to be one continuous round of joy - it is not meant to be disected into segments and there are no mantras to chant when the turn for unhappiness comes - you have to learn to deal with it yourself!